I’m sure you all know by now but according to the Mufti of the Lebanese Republic, Muslim politicians who voice support for civil marriage will be considered as apostates and deserters of the Muslim faith. (Link). As of this morning, his speech has become an official binding and registered fatwa. Some Lebanese decided that such obvious cultural terrorism wasn’t going to be the way to silence them. So they did what they could and they spoke up – peacefully.
According to some twisted religious rationale, all of the above people and more are engaging in blasphemy. Why? because some men of the cloth and their very avid followers cannot wrap their heads around the idea that some people out there don’t want their religion to dictate every single aspect of their lives. Do you know why Mufti Kabbani is against civil marriage that much? I don’t think it has anything to do with religion. If he was so worried about the rights of Muslims in securing a spot in heaven, he’d be the first person helping out Muslim people in need around the country seeing as they are – by all accounts – the poorest people of Lebanon. It’s because civil marriage limits his influence and the influence of people like him immensely most notably when it comes to their bottom line at the end of the month, one dollar at a time. In the words of the late sheikh Mohammad Hussein Fadlallah, a renowned Muslim scholar known for his modernized thoughts, “civil marriage is not a problem because it documents a marital contract between two parties in a very clear way with them committing to a marital relationship.” It is here that I believe we should commend Patriarch Raï for a stance not only with optional civil marriage but with making it compulsory. (Link). Do you know why blinded religious people come up with paragraphs upon paragraphs of why civil marriage is a sin? Because they can’t wrap their heads around the simple notion of freedom of choice. What’s in it for you if some people want to live in your version of sin? What’s in it for you if I am a “kefer?” Also why should your notion of “kefer” apply to those who don’t even share your religious views to begin with? I’ve got news for some of those people: Lebanon is not sharia land. And it will never be. The biggest obstacle to civil marriage and subsequently state in Lebanon isn’t just religious folk who can’t fathom living in a place where their religion doesn’t go all the time, it’s also cowardly politicians who cannot conceive standing against their religious reference in such matters and who also don’t realize that living in a state with a sectarian system doesn’t mean living in a religious state à la Saudi Arabia. I am pro civil marriage because I simply support that basic civil freedom. To some, that is beyond complicated to fathom. The above pictures were obtained from this Facebook group (link) which I recommend you join hoping that this sudden surge in national awareness of the issue, coupled with support from the Lebanese president, doesn’t become another “women quota in parliament” and “voting age lowering” issue by it actually translating to some tactical wins. Blasphemy is great sometimes.
استغفرالله !!
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Hahaha I laughed
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Thank you for sharing our photo and for sharing this cause! To hell with all these so-called leaders!
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Thank you for sharing your photo for everyone to see to begin with 🙂 Best wishes for more years of marital bliss to come.
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I see beautiful couples everywhere 🙂
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Likewise 🙂
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It is according to both the Muslim and Christian faiths in Lebanon that if a couple gets joined non religiously they would be living in sin. If a priest here of a sheikh there (or a even a patriarch) hint that they are pro-civil marriage, that does not make it non sin full with regards to the larger religious institution (which comprises of many thousands of scrutinizing followers.) Lebanon does not need baby steps towards legalizing civil marriage. It needs a giant leap making civil marriage the only state recognized marriage. After that, an optional additional religious marriage may follow for those who are ardent believers. That is the only way we can put state ahead of religion.
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It’s not about making it a sin. The point I made here is: if I want to sin, it’s up to me not up to you and your keen interest in my heavenly prospects. The fact that the Maronite Church, in the form of Raï, wants to have civil marriage is an acceptable step.
I don’t think compulsory civil marriage in any way in Lebanon is remotely feasible.
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Loads of thanks for sharing, I posted our own Cyprus wedding to the Facebook group 🙂
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Didn’t see it but congrats – even if late 🙂
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Lebanese Government would rather see 2 men holding guns than 2 couples holding hands. lol
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I am in a mixed marriage. My children are the products of a mixed marriage and I think it is awesome that all those people on the pictures took the same step. It is the only way to eliminate the (imaginary) differences between Lebanese!
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